An ex deleted me as a friend on myspace?

[Jessica 22]

I was one of two ex-girlfriends that my ex deleted from his myspace account right after he recently married. We've been broken up for over 5 years and have rarely spoken, but we have a lot of close friends in common. I've never sent him a personal message or comment and have rarely looked at his page. I guess it really offended me because the mere fact that I added him over a year ago was an olive branch kinda thing due to our messy breakup. I really didn't want to hold a grudge and I thought that was an appropriate gesture esp. considering a lot of his friends are mine. I thought it was rude on his part and it hurt my feelings. Am I being too sensitive?

[R. W]

Are you sure that he did this and the wife didn't? Also he might have done this as she asked him to. Best to ignore it and move on. Sounds like more trouble than it's worth.

[Daisy29]

Waay too sensitive. Maybe he doesn't want his wife to break his balls over old girlfriends and since you guys don't really communicate anyway, what's the problem.He's married, he'd like to keep peace in his house. It has NOTHING to do with you.

[backpackwayne]

Nine times out of ten it would be his new girlfriend or wife that insisted that he do it. Don't take it personally.

[markhurls]

It's hard having Ex lovers as "Friends" after a brake up...I myself cut off all contact with my Ex's cuz it helps ease the pain... and it stops me from making an @ss of myself (Telling them off, begging to come back)I think you being to sensitive, he is no longer a part of your life and he doesn't seem to want you there.

[perfectlybaked]

You are being too sensitive. He is married. His whole focus in life should now be his wife. If he has exes on a friend list on some Internet site my only thought is ulterior motive. They should be gone out of his life by now, or, maybe his wife just made him do it.I'm sure that if you were married and an obscure ex were to run up to you and tug on your sleeve you would be like, "Who are you again?"I've seen couples do that. At church whenever a young couple would be courting, they would automatically treat anyone in their age group as inferior, like "Haha, I'm getting married and you're not." I hated this because no girl wanted me at church, but if I were to date a girl outside of church people would act like bloody murder just happened. I hated it.Anyway my point is that a married person is spoken for. It's easy to think, "Wow, they let go of me, just like that," but we would all do the same if it were us.

[julabask]

yea move on

[Sphinx Rising]

If you broke up and have not talked or even bothered looking at his page all that much, I fail to see the big deal that he deleted you from Myspace.It's not like you two was talking, and not like you was going to his page all the time, so no loss on your part, and he does have a wife now so time to move on.