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| on MySpace? Kids & adults plz This world is so scary!! I have an almost 3 year old and I just want to keep her away from all dangers. I mean the article said that the victim was beat up for "talking trash" on her MySpace page so the 6 honor students decided to retailate by posting a video on their MySpace page of the girl getting beat up! How do we protect our kids?? From everything??? Kidnapping, Rapists, Child predators, Fights, etc...?? I know, I know...just talk to your child but do you think that peer pressure can come over a parents talking? I'm so scared of raising my daughter, plus I'm pregnant with another and I am so scared of raising them because of all these horrible things that happen daily! Drugs and driving and drinking, it never stops!!! I couldn't imagine my life without my daughter so I could never go on if I knew she was a victim of violence. Her or my unborn. Are there any parents out there that have GOOD advice of what a parents is supposed to do? Any parents where their kids were victims?Are there any kids out there that can tell me their experience with peer pressure or how you feel society treats you today? I did my wrongs when I was a kid/teen but I never resorted to these drastic measure that it seems a lot of kids and teens are doing now-a-days. The high school I went to there was a fight every week so I know fights happen constantly but how do you talk to a child that is being bullied or teased. Does walking away REALLY help or telling an adult. If I told on another student for being "mean" to me that would make that person even more mad for 'ratting' them out so it didn't help then. I'm just looking for advice and other peoples opinion of the children of today because I know I have a while before my daughter is in school but child predators and what not are around no matter what age you are at.www.wltx.com/news/story.aspx?storyid=60657
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| It scared me, too, when I heard that. actually on FoxNews.com it says 8 kids beat her up. It shows the pictures of all 8 kids that were arrested. I think they were jealous of the little girl over something and decided to take her down. her mother said she didn't even recognize her in the hospital- her face was so busted up. I'm sorry but if i were that girls mother- I would go bust every single one of those kids PARENTS faces for raising such little Sh*ts. It makes me sick- and scared. My oldest daughter is ten and i just tell her constantly to avoid arguing with other kids. some of them are out of control. To stay out of anyone elses fights. If a kid is angry at her- I tell her that it's THEIR problem. don't feed it. Just ignore it.
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| Yes, I saw it yesterday when it was first reported on "Headline News" They interviewed the mom of the victim. Her poor daughter just wants to forget it and get on with her life, but, her assault is all over the Internet. It was a disgusting act that several students conspired to perpetrate. They should all be expelled , prosecuted & their parents should be sued in civil court. The victim's wish of getting over it will never happen while all this discussion is going on,but, she deserves justice if not revenge. Get your children in martial arts training while they are young. Their ability to defend themselves should be second nature and deliberate. No one can be protected by loved ones 24/7. Hollywood acknowledges this social dysfuntions with movies like, "My Body Guard" and more recently, "Drill Bit Taylor". Never underestimate the cruelty early teens inflict on the"weak" . A menstral cycle & a pushup bra are more than a young girl can handle. Jail time can be a good place for these girls to learn remorse for what they did!
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| Teach them smart street rules now. Don't scare but teach what to do if someone comes up to her that she doesn't know. Tell her if someone she doesn't know to scream really loud. And as she gets older show her easy protection moves and maybe once she is a teen find a RAD class they will show you all of the best technics!
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| teach them how to fight; throughout high school, i was apathetic towards my surroundings, and was never bothered; even if i ratted someone out and because of that one(or many) of those kids had really instigated me; i wouldve beat the crap out of them --- teach them how to defend themselves
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| Oh my god, I'm not a mother, but seeing something like that makes me not want to bring innocent children up in a world where people can nearly beat someone to death and think it's funny. How can people treat another human being like that, it just makes me physically sick to my stomach. I was just watching Nancy grace and apparently they are getting charged with felony kidnapping and aggravated battery and in most jurisdictions they will face 20 to life for each charge. They haven't even kicked them out of the school for what they've done, and the girl who was nearly killed is now being home schooled.They haven't decided whether or not they will charge them as adults yet, but the had better, because once they get put in jail for 10 years I don't think they'll be laughing anymore.We absolutely cannot let them get away with this, it is just sick. Those girls were just animalistic, I saw some of the footage, and they even used 5 video camera's to video tape it, which is proof that they pre-meditated the act. I mean they have absolutely no remorse for what they did to that girl. I hope the punishment fits the crime.This just makes me sick.I am stunned by the heartlessness of those teens.Be strong to all you mom's.Blessings
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| You gotta teach your child that they need to take pride in themselves, and their choices. Not everything your friends do is the right thing. You need to teach your kids to have a back bone for themselves.This all boils down from parents not raising their children properly. I would be absolutely devestated and livid if a child of mine came home with the shit kicked out of her. Omg how would a parent react legally? Without wanting to kill those 6 C-Bombs?
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| im not a parent but from seeing other people getting in fights and all the drama that happens at school i would have to say that if you or ur children hang out with the right people, know whos good and bad, and when its time to stop being friends with someone because they are invovled in stuff you know you shouldnt be then you or your child should be ohkay and get through school easy. just walking away from fights will probably work if the people arnt so serious about it but other times its probably best to tell someone...not like friends but teachers or your parents. the best advice i would have to give being my age and seeing what i see people doing is just m.y.o.b and dont talk about people when you know its goning to get back to them...well just dont talk bad about people behind their backs. for a parent i would just say try your very very veryx3423 best to teach your kids wrong from right my parents did a great job at teaching me that when i was little and now that im growing up i can understand whats right and wrong and what kind of people i shouldnt talk to. if your kids are being bullied at school try talking to the school about the other kids that are doing this..if not that talk to them about how strict they are on how the kids treat one another and how closely the staff is watching whats going on around campus. i have never been apart of a physical fight but sadly i have been apart of things where HE SAID SHE SAID and where people say i spread rumors when i didnt and when people even start rumors about me. the best best best thing i could say about when you hear someone say something about you or a friend behind their/your back..just calmly confront them and be like hey whts up why'd you say that about me..dont get overly mad about it. think it through. think twice before you do or say anything. violence is NEVER the answer. i hope ive helped and the best of luck to you and your childrenbyee (:
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